The next step

Tomorrow we go see the specialist. Bright and early at 9 am. Which is made more bright and early by the fact that we have to leave about two hours before that to make it to the apt. Am happy we go in so soon, but nervous also. I believe we will have another ultrasound, were they will take the measurements more carefully. We will decide what to do from there. My thought is that if the risk of us having a child with problems is higher than 1 in 200 we will have an amnio later on. If it is lower, we won't. The risk of miscarriage for an amnio is 1 in 200, and I am not going to risk it if my chance of miscarrying is higher than my chance of a baby with problems. If the risk is that low, we will wait until the later u/s where they will be able to tell much better if the baby has other markers. So that is the story.